They say true love aint easy but in all retrospect, something that is true and meant to be is not supposed to be a complicated transaction, am I correct? Hmmmm...A size 8 is my TRUE shoe size so tryin on a 5, 6 or 7 would NOT be a free flowing deal. Why? Cuz my feet aren't MEANT to fit! DUH! This saying gets a lot of us in trouble. It makes us partake in those "I'll stick around until it changes" festivities. True, love will have it's ups and downs but how does one appreciate the sun if they've never experienced the rain? And that's all it should be...RAIN, not THUNDERSTORMS, HURRICANES & TORNADOES. Ever noticed that the rain rejuevenates, replenishes & revitalizes oh and provides free car washes? The latter tears shit up and runs amuck. Who wants that in life? Wayment, I digress, some people actually choose to weather these damn storms so if you do then clearly I'm not speaking to you. You're one of those low self esteem individuals and I don't deal with your kind.
Now when I say a smooth transaction, I mean one doesn't have to resort to foolish game playing, super sleuthing, changing yourself or someone else. Consider how hard it is to change yourself cuz only then will you see the difficulty in changing others. If you have to change someone else, that's not an easy transaction. The fact that you wish to change someone is difficult for me to stomach anyway. Who wants a person to walk like them, talk like them, believe like them and act like them? If that aint some boring shit than I don't know what is. I don't know if I can handle someone that is JUST like me. I mean, I'm a handful honey. Two of me in the world would NOT be the business for all parties involved!
If every time you look around, you and your boo or friend or fam member is up for therapy then how easy is this transaction? If y'all quit talking to each other at least once a week, what kind of relationship is this? They are calling, you send them to voicemail....you're in the same house but CHOOSE to be in different rooms.....he wants fish and you want chicken so since no one wants to compromise, no one eats and both your asses are hungry.....she lies, you stick around and not trust her...everything is rocky but you insist that things getting better. Then again, sometimes we make shit wrinkle when it's smooth on it's own. Hmmmm I've never seen a building stand steadfast on a coarse, rough or uneven foundation but I have seen a size 10 squeeze into a size 8 shoe and it looks a mess. I'm sure it feels a mess too! However it starts, that's exactly how it'll end.
//signed//
The Cat's Meow
